If you dropped a bowling ball from your roof 100 times, how many times would it hit the ground? It would hit 100 times. The bowling ball is subject to the law of gravity. An attractive force that draws two objects towards each other.
You’ll never defy the law of gravity by dropping a bowling ball from your roof.
The Bible says in Mathew 7,
Judge not, and ye shall not be judged. For with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.
In other words, if you judge another, someone else will judge you. The mete will come. It’s the law Jesus taught.
By the same law, if you compliment someone or praise another, someone else will compliment or praise you. If you encourage another, someone else will encourage you.
It’s the law. Works every time.
So, would you rather be a judge or an encourager? The physics of judging applies equally to either choice.